Has it been a long time since you had one? Have you only had bad ones? Or not one at all?
Here is a very important concept that most women get, but a few women are clueless on: you have to play the Game. You can't just wait for Prince Charming to do all the work for you. How do you play the game?
FIRST, HAVE AN OPEN MIND BY ACCEPTING WHAT YOU'VE DONE IN THE PAST HASN'T WORKED.
Remember: "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results." Be willing to hear new ideas. Ultimately you will make it your own, but for now just be open to different ideas.
WHAT IS THE GAME?
Have you ever watched a little boy and a little girl interact? It is so cute at times. We smile and laugh cause we feel ourselves in that same situation while we watch it. Everything is brand new and interesting.
Now think about a girl and a guy in their 20s just meeting each other. The interaction is usually very stiff most of the time. Society conditions use to be like that, but evolution has yet to catch up. Evolution expects us (considering we have all the resources we need) to have fun and explore. Meeting someone new should be a fun and exciting experience.
This is the Game. It is enjoying the time with another person whom you find attractive and engaging them. It could as simple as a friendly smile or a wink. No really, sometimes that is all it takes to create attraction. As long as there is an undertone of attraction, you'll be surprised by how little you have to do and how fun it can be.
But this bring me to the most important concept of the Game. It should be and has to be "fun." Think of when you go out shopping with your friends trying to find that perfect dress. You get mad cause you walked an entire mall and found nothing. Then you get frustrated cause you found one that you liked but it is too small. Just when things couldn't getworst... you found that dress you were looking for. Now when you got mad and frustrated was it a bad experience. No, cause you had fun with your friends searching for what you wanted. All those set backs were just part of the adventure.
The Game must be seen the same way or else you'll get burned out. Besides, it can be the most fun you've ever had in your life.
How do you play the game? Well, it should simply come natural. And you do (believe it or not) have it in you.
But if you need a nudge in the right direction... check out some of my other articles. I think you'll be surprised by what you find out about yourself and what easy, effective techniques to learn.
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