BY NJOKI CHEGE;"A relationship neediness either steal you to the altar or to the dam. If it only takes you to bed and the kitchen, subsequently my costly, make smile say no to slavery"...goes my sweet quote on marriage and relationships.
Set blind date, my mother's friend walked up to me one Sunday following church and asked me "Gullible lady, now that you fair graduated and handhold a job, each time are we selling you?"
I was lovesick aback by her question. Oh, for make somewhere your home who don't understand what her question was all about, the good old lady was plainly asking me each time I was thinking to get married. The same as her question caught me off syndicate and I had never formerly entertained the gossip of marriage, I plainly smiled, replied abruptly,' and walked to one side rudely.
Spasm, looking back a blind date ensuing, I handhold an react for you, my costly lady; I will only get married as abruptly as I land a beautifully flourishing man who will not only bath me off my feet with his romance but injure me with his moneybags.
In the few existence I handhold been in the dating consider, I handhold met hordes of men who come in all folder sizes, shapes, careers and characters. Introduce are the playboys who think with their gonads and obtain that the world revolves surrounding them. Introduce are the pleasant-sounding, nice guys but are deathly abstemious and baggy. Introduce are the bad boys whom I handhold away for the water attraction of dating a bad boy and for bearing in mind having to say 'It's just us against the dirt.
Introduce are make somewhere your home born-again church boys, who eat, live, think the Bible. Sooner or later, donate are the fully tender gems, the ones I would love to meet and join, the rich or flourishing men.
I hate to sufficient like a gold digger; gravely, my parents raised me better than to love a man for his support. But subsequently again, I obtain I am a smart girl with invulnerable dreams and ambitions.
Stretch I am the quintessential Miss-Independent girl who pays her own rent, foots her bills and purchases her heels, I am a lover of the patronizing belongings in life, which I handhold come to get the picture do not come bargain.
I am a firm supporter that every woman magnitude her pair of nude-colored heels must handhold what I like to call 'a daybed. A daybed is plainly an insanely rich man who will steal care of you in box your incident goes down under or in the projected battle that you lose your job. I am not teaching you how to be a gold-digger, just think of this as a obliging money order.
Kenya's sensational and often misunderstood boy band 'Sauti Sol', in their song "Resources Enthusiast fairly sing, 'Heri ulie kwenye range nomad, Ama ucheke kwenye boda boda,Ukose usingizi runda Masaibu yanakufuata..." (It is better to secrete inside a rangerover than chuckle on a bodaboda, it is better to be aware in a mansion in Runda.) I couldn't grant second with Sauti Sol. Any day, I would rather be cobalt in a shiny CLS Mercedes Benz than be happy supporting a crappy Toyota Premio.
I would rather exploitation aware nights in a mansion in Karen than siesta soundly in a bargain rented home in South C everywhere length of track wash comes only thrice a week. I would rather be married to an disagreeable, rich man than a signal man who cannot yet buy me my assume car. In the role of is a man who has no money?
Men get into relationships and marriage for uncommon reasons such as personal conformity and blooming up to societal morals. Like picking out a spouse a man will go for the prettiest, highest fine girl in the room. If a man would date me for my looks, why am I not official to pick the richest and wealthiest man in the pack?
I am not seeking a rich man for the water fact that he is powerful, far from it. Resources begets respect from society and that is accurately the warm of man I want to join. A large swahili saying goes "Tangu Lini Tajiri akadharuliwa?" (In the function of each time was a rich man disrespected?).
I want to be the spouse of a man who commands greetings from all at home in society; I want to be the society's first lady.
He may possibly be uglier than former Zimbabwe Record Morgan Tsvingirai, lofty than Mugabe and not learned as he can be, as long as he is malodorous rich, subsequently I handhold a smack runner for marriage.
Past you enlighten me, let me say that I am not only looking out to support my life in the dowry innovative, but equally trying my best to intertwine the innovative of my strain. Directly like any focused blood relation, I want my strain schooled in the best schools in the aver, I want them to go on play dates with strain of the who's who in this aver, I want my strain to grow up in a financially even milieu.
Ladies, if you are dating a man who requires you to go Dutch on dates, he is perhaps the warm of man that will ask you to forego that stop to the salon and pay home rent. If you are dating a slacker who drives a bargain Subaru Imprezza or a low end Toyota As it should be II, he is a under pressure small fry, who will entirely do without to steal you and the strain for outing only bearing in mind a blind date, as diametrically opposed to my utterly negligible of three or four times a blind date. Such a man can only do without to steal you out to bargain joints like Tribeka, Mojos or Group (Thika Route) and can insufficiently do without to buy you a erect eat.
If you are a beautiful, well-endowed woman with evident men hot on your heels, subsequently I present you pick the wealthiest, and it doesn't matter if he is disagreeable or smells like a shoe. Resources is the name of the game popular.
I haven't give rise to my Mr. Moneybags yet, but as I await him, I will handhold fun dating this As it should be X and As it should be II tiring trash, but recover me used up marrying any of these riffraffs.
"E!NEWS KENYA."
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