Who Do You Need To Be To What Do You Need To Do To Have What You Want

This is a simple but powerful model to ask us.

Whenever we step up to the next level or have to make a decision in your life we must always ask ourselves who do we need to BE.

Being is really mindset what is your mindset like to take on this task. If we don't have the right mindset then it is really useless to go forward.

When we ask the question of ourselves what is stopping me? It comes down to this. What are our beliefs what are our values what do we believe to be true; all of this has direct impact on our ability have what we want.

WHO DO YOU NEED TO BE?

Recently working with a client who is a director but wants a more hands on helping role to change the culture in his organisation. We pondered on his belief system what he knows to be true and matched that with the person that he needs to Be to take on this new role.

WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DO?

The next task was to ask what do you need to do? Now that could be getting the right training. he had already completed 7 Day NLP and was working toward his diploma in Life Coaching. He already had enough experience in the company plenty of ideas and understanding of culture he had impressed the right people so he is on his way.

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO HAVE?

This is really the outcome what do you want to have at the end of this. Our client's choices were a new role in the business or to run his own consultancy. He was very clear on that he just needed to add in the time frame he wanted to have these things by.

Often I joke in training What will you be when you grow up? When you decide please let me know as I am still working on it.

Fact is that we can have many different careers and roles in this ever-changing world. Gone are the days of choosing the one career and that was it for life.

There will be many times that we have to ask yourself who do you need to BE.

Life is often challenging but rewarding when we face change in our lives. This model just may make it easy for you.

We can use this in our personal life. If we want to be a great partner, mother, father or daughter etc we can ask Who do we need to be, what do we need to do to have what we want out of this relationship?

So go ahead now and take some time out of you busy day to sit and ponder maybe with pen and paper in hand.

BE DO HAVE

I would love to know your experience if this has worked or not.

As always sharing is caring please share with you friends it just may help them make that important decision.

Love,

Dale x

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