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An obviously troubled man writes to ask how he can STOP having affairs and get his life together. Let's see what we can do for him - and YOU!
Guys and gals, lightning has struck! I have for you today proof that men can recognize and admit that they do not like having affairs, and do indeed want a stable, monogamous relationship, possibly even enough to do what is necessary to make it happen. Only time will tell whether this man has the courage of his convictions, but I'm sensing a very genuine desire and sense of priority in his words, and his language indicates that he's going to step up and take charge of his life. Meet James:
Good morning,
My name is James and would like to share with you problems in my relationship.
It's been ten years now with ma girlfriend. The problem is I love her but I'm having affairs.
I'm so insecure, jealous coz I think she's doing the same thing, I don't trust her at all.
I would like to overcome my problem and stick to one partner, get married, give ma seven year daughter all the support she can ever get.
I don't think I'll cope if she have an affair.
I'm OUTGOING, spend most weekends out with friends, on drinking spree,
Come weekdays, I'm a darling.
The problem has affected our sex intimate life, we get intimate once in a while.
She has feeling and will end up having an affair.
Please help.
James
This is obviously a man who is bottoming out, realizing that he's at a crossroads, and is deciding that he doesn't want to spend the rest of his life the way he's spent the last ten years. I call that a damned good choice, based on what he's written about the last ten years. My response:
Hi James,
I cannot help you while you're pursuing affairs, but if you're truly ready to stop and straighten up, listen to reason, and get your life on track I can definitely help. Before you can do anything, you're going to have to identify the reason you are having affairs and eliminate it.
If you're doing it because you have no self-esteem and are trying to substitute the acceptance and approval of other women for the genuine self-esteem created by achievement, then you're going to have to start creating real reasons to feel good about yourself and stop thinking that chasing other women is going to make you feel any better about anything. Approval and acceptance must come from within, not from somebody else.
If it's because you are bored, or because your wife is bored and the two of you aren't intimate, then you just need to get back in tune, learn about how to create attraction and communicate effectively, and nature will quickly take its course and get you to where you need to be. That's not hard to do, but you need to know how and you need to want it to make it happen.
Unfortunately, your weekend "drinking sprees" point toward low self-esteem, because a man who feels good about himself doesn't spend every weekend poisoning himself and looking for cheap thrills with other self-destructive people; a drink or two is no big deal, but you're describing a binge, and you know as well as I do that repeated bingeing is self-destructive behavior. A man who feels good about himself spends that time enriching himself with his hobbies and enjoying time with the ones he loves, not abusing himself and, potentially, those around him.
Low self-esteem makes you very unattractive to any woman who spends any time around you, except for a predator who is looking for a new mark to suck dry of life and cash, and causes you to seek approval, acceptance, social confirmation, etc., from women, who may find you charming and witty when both of you are drinking or drunk, which is a huge red flag in itself, but after they sober up and see that you're swimming in your problems instead of solving them, they quickly move on and the affair ends.
You have some pretty serious work ahead of you, and my book, "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," can help you if you read and apply it. Its primary purpose is to deprogram you from all the wussy crap that the media and other idiots have heaped on us over the last forty years or more and let the real man within you come out and take over, a man who is competent, confident, attracts and understands women, and is the kind of man that every woman wants to live with, a man-caught in a self-amplifying cycle of self-improvement instead of a death-spiral.
I'd suggest you give it a try before you become an alcohol-related death statistic, because all that is really in front of you is a series of choices to live a better life. The decision is the hard part; following through is easy once you've committed to change, because you get to see results and feel good about them, which in turn motivates you to achieve better and better results. Self-esteem-building becomes a self-perpetuating cycle that replaces the cycle of approval-seeking and self-destruction you're caught in now.
Take care, and keep in touch,
David
I saw a purchase notification from James within 24 hours, and I fully expected it. Why? Because he's not in denial about his situation; he's accepted it and admitted that he is the cause of his own problems. When people finally face the fact that what they are doing isn't working and start asking for help, they usually go through with fixing it.
There are two exceptions. The first is that group of people who define "help" as having someone do everything for them instead of providing the information and support they need and then getting out of the way and letting them do what needs to be done so they can own their own achievement and feel good about it.
The second is that group who are looking for validation of their mistakes instead of real solutions to their problems, and they will engage you in conversation on the premise of wanting help, but they don't want to talk about a solution; instead, they want to talk about what they did and why they did it and how you must understand such-and-such. If you hear the words, "But you don't understand..." the next thing out of their mouth will be some kind of plea to ignore the reality of their bad choices and tell them that they were justified for screwing up, they're still a "good person," etc. Don't waste your time with them.
So if you're ready to admit that things aren't the way they should be and that you are ready to take an active part in the solution, that, Gentlemen, is where I come in. I've done the research with hundreds of couples to find out what makes for good and bad relationship and how you can evaluate your own, what women want and what truly makes them tick, and how to easily return to that natural male behavior that flips their attraction switches and turns up the heat, saving them from their primary enemy, boredom. Do you realize what this means to you?
Do you remember the story about the man who found the bottle, rubbed it, and out came a genie, who granted him one wish, and he said he wanted a bridge from Los Angeles to Hawaii so he could drive his wife, who was afraid of flying, there for a vacation? When the genii said it was too big a request, the man said, "Then I guess I just want to know what makes women tick," and the genii said, "Hmmm...tell me more about this bridge."
We were all taught through such jokes and stories growing up that this is something that we would never know, yet here before you is the opportunity to know, once and for all, that most mysterious and seemingly forbidden of all things. Indeed, Sigmund Freud, the renowned psychologist, is famous for saying, "The Great Question... which I have not been able to answer... is, 'What does a woman want?'" That conundrum being solved, the question now is "Do you have the sense and the guts to reach out and grab this knowledge that evaded even the likes of Sigmund Freud and put it to work in your life?"
Like James, you now have a choice before you. Are you going to continue to sit there in the dark picking up a few crumbs from this newsletter every day, or even worse, in denial about the cause of your problems and looking for someone else to blame? Or are you going to secure for yourself and your family the next best thing to the keys to the universe, the knowledge that will put you on the road to being all that you can be, in your eyes and hers?
That should be the easiest decision you ever made in your life, so jump over to http://www.makingherhappy.com and download your copy of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" right now, before you do another thing, because as we say in The South, "Time's a wastin!" and life is definitely too short to waste it. And don't miss our new forum at http://forum.makingherhappy.com, where you can find help, friends, and fun!
In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!
David Cunningham "Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham
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We're going to take a sudden detour from what women want to address another question that the other question begs: What about YOU? What do YOU want? Do you remember the old saying, "Be careful what you wish for, because you might just get it"? We've talked about that subject before, but never in THIS context. Tune in, because it will jerk you upright!
This subject of what women want has opened up either a cornucopia or a hornet's nest; I'm not sure which. I'm getting flooded with comments and questions, and loving every minute of it. It appears that my readers are some of the smartest people around if they use their heads. Some catch on immediately, while others don't get it at first because they are so emotionally charged and married to a bad position, but once they see the contradiction in their thinking, they immediately get on the right track and impress the hell out of me with the clarity of their vision and swiftness of their response. I'm proud of every one of you who has responded!
The biggest mistake that anyone can make during relationship crisis is to let insecurity and need take over, driving you to try to save something that is already bad for you, and unfortunately, this is one of the most common mistakes as well. Both men and women can be in a relationship that is so bad that they are considering breaking it off, and if the other person moves to initiate the discussion, they suddenly switch from "I wonder how I can start this conversation to break it off without making an enemy?" to "How can I win them back so I can regain their acceptance and approval?"
Sad, isn't it?
I'm going to share with you a most stunning response from a reader who has been through "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" and we've been corresponding about his current situation. We have been discussing why and under what conditions he should allow his estranged wife to come home and resume her post as his wife and mother of his son after having an affair with a financial parasite who has made her do some rather crazy things to try to keep her options open with her husband, who is successful and very capable of supporting the whole family alone (she's not worked and contributed as a homemaker in return for a pretty lavish existence).
I described several diverse options for him to analyze and see what made sense to him so that I could gauge his mental state and how much he had learned from "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" and our discussions, and wrapped up by saying,
"I'm not particularly thrilled about the idea of her coming home without a complete repentance and new commitment; I'm just offering you options. The one you choose depends on your own sense of self-worth."
His response was awe-inspiring, the hallmark of a man who has realized that both halves of a partnership must earn their place in it, and that love and trust can only be traded for love and trust. Read and learn from a student who has indeed become a master:
Touch'e - That's the entire question at this point, isn't it? I really see no value in her coming home as a relief to HER - it has to be for the right reasons. In the past, she's come around to wisdom after some thought, but this is big. If she told me tonight that she and [the boyfriend] were over and she wanted to be home, I'd question her motives. Wanting to be home is not the same as wanting to be my wife, or wanting to repair our problems, or wanting to move past the crap she dwells on for years. I'm uninterested in returning to our former life, and I know she is as well.
Truth is, she may miss our house and comfortable life much more than she misses me, and her anger/blame is directed at me for that loss as much as the loss of our relationship. I've been watching for evidence of that, and finding LESS, but still finding some. If she announced her desire to start over and repair the whole thing, I'd be openly skeptical of her ability or willingness to really do that. In the past she's handled our issues by deciding that I was the problem, but she'd tolerate me because the good outweighed the bad. She'd deny that, but I see it often enough that I stick to my story!
Noah (Yes, name changed to protect his privacy!)
Can you imagine that? A man who has pushed beyond that initial knee-jerk reaction of "I've got to have my wife back no matter what!" to see that she may have in fact been a bad influence on the whole family with her philandering and deceit and taken the firm stand that if she comes home, it will be as a loving, loyal wife and mother and a genuine life partner, not simply as another dependent who pisses away the love to get to the security he can provide.
Make no mistake; this is the attitude that should prevail in every marriage and committed relationship, for both parties. If your life together is a fair trade, you should nurture and protect it vigorously, but if you indeed have a dependent instead of a partner, someone who takes and wastes your life and other resources and gives you nothing but meaningless and scant approval - just enough to keep you giving in to their every whim - you really need to be somewhere else, or need for them to be somewhere else.
Contrary to what the altruists would have you believe, your purpose on this planet is not simply to have the life sucked out of you by someone who refuses to take responsibility for making a life for themselves, which is a recipe for resentment, fear, and a tortured existence. Your life is the most precious resource in all the universe, and it is not only in limited supply, as it must come to an end at some point, you don't know how much of it you have left and every second that passes is gone forever.
You should live to achieve and enjoy the fruit of your achievement, not live in servitude. The altruists say that sacrifice, the trading of life for nothing, is noble. The truth is that sacrifice, working for the benefit of others at the cost of your own life, is simply slavery, and there is nothing noble or moral about slavery. And being enslaved to a spouse rather than sharing and celebrating a life with them, fairly trading part of your life, time, effort, and emotions for part of theirs, is an ignoble, immoral waste of life.
If you disagree, you are free to piss your life away as you please, but don't bother writing to me to tell me how I need to do the same. You will merely confirm yourself as a waste of my time and be dropped from my newsletter subscription list. I'm happy, and you're not or you wouldn't be reading this, so you should be listening to me and learning how to become happy instead of trying to convince me to mimic your miserable existence so I'll be as unhappy as you are. 'Nuff said.
I need to be very clear here about parasites and predators. You can't say that all women are gold-diggers any more than you can say that all men are wife-beaters, and that's certainly not what I'm trying to say here. Most women are good people, especially when led by a man who is caring, attractive, and responsible and brings out her nurturing nature. What I want you to understand concerning parasites and predators is that committed relationships are either synergistic partnerships or they are something that will destroy you; there is no middle ground.
If your relationship isn't fulfilling you and giving you cause for celebration, it's killing you, either through the slow poison of the erosion of your self-worth and self-respect, or the explosive shockwave of excessive demands and manipulation that continue until you are wiped out, when the fatal blow is delivered, the break-up, accompanied by the news that everything you did just wasn't quite good enough, and if you're married, you're going to have to make up for your shortcoming by giving up half or more of everything you've worked for.
What kind of relationship are you in? Are you celebrating being together? Are you bored with being together? Are you looking forward to being together tomorrow? Are you living in fear that you might find tomorrow that you are no longer together? Can your relationship be fixed? Or should you get out while you still have some life left to invest in a better way of life, one which may involve a more appreciative and mutually nurturing partner who compliments your existence rather than competing with it?
These are tough questions, some that many people can't answer, even after being together for 20, 30, and even 40 years! It's not that they're stupid at all; they either don't know the right questions to ask or they're terrified of the answers. It doesn't have to be that way...
There are answers waiting for you at http://makingherhappy.com in "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," along with the mental and emotional means to use those answers to make your life better instead of allowing them to torment you. Get those answers now, and get a near-instantaneous boost in your own self-worth, so that you can face the tough questions with the courage of your convictions and make your life, especially your marriage or other committed relationship, the best that it can be.
In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!
David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham
