HOW TO IMPRESS ANY WOMAN
Wouldn't it be amazing to be able to impress ANY woman you met.Imagine if the next time you went out or met up with a woman you could simply have her in awe over you?
Sounds good doesn't it?
Today, I want to talk about a SECRET that hardly any man knows about.
Maybe one man out of say...."choose you is to cat". perhaps a hundred.
These guys that know about it this simple idea probably don't even realize they are doing it! Therefore it hasn't ever really been spoken about....if you asked these men they wouldn't even know how to respond.
"One of my passions is to break down the painfully obvious things we see in every day life that we never actually stop to think about in the smallest details."
SO HOW CAN YOU IMPRESS ANY WOMAN ON THE PLANET?
Let's dig a little deeper"intelligent conversation with ". I personally believe that the majority of men want to impress a woman he is attracted to"kes him want to "catch then he will want to prove that he is the one". As always, the devil is in the details.
How do over 99.999 percent of men think you would impress a woman?
Perhaps he only talks about cool and safe stuff to try and impress her, after all, if she DOESN'T like something you are talking about she couldn't be impressed right?
1.) So he talks about his accomplishments, his fancy car, who he knows, what he's done in an effort to impress
2.)He backtracks on his words and changes what he says to better suit her ideals and opinions
3.) He focuses on commonalities they share and boring logic talk
4.) He avoids risky talk, sex talk, teasing, or anything that he feels might upset of offend her.
I mean logically if you've accomplished something have commonalities and don't talk about risky subjects then you may seem like a perfect match right?
Here is the problem.
LOGIC IS BORING.
2+2=4 BORING
2+2=6000?
WHAT? Now you're intrigued right?
What if I told you that there were invisible zeros that had been whited out of the equation? What if you discovered them all on your own?
Now we're talking.
Now we're having fun.
The trick is to NOT try and impress her"e Even while you make him aware of your". Trying to impress her leads to INAUTHENTIC BEHAVIOR" watching a girl who is confident and wh". That means you are trying to conform to HER standards.
She basically views this as disgusting when viewed under a SEXUAL lens.
Sure, she might think it's sweet that you are so nervous that you want her to like her.
Sure, that's cute like a 6 year old who's embarrassed because he's 6.
When it comes to SEXUAL attraction the game changes.
Logic goes out the window.
The type of behavior that surrounds "Trying to Impress" woman suggest that you are
1.) insecure
2.) seeking approval
3.) have ZERO experience with attractive women or women in general
4.) have NO self confidence
5.) have NO personal identity
6.) Have ZERO boundaries
Look over the list above.." unattainable and im". does that sound like a sexually attractive man?
Didn't think so.
So what should you do?
Have a good time, if you don't normally have a good time then you need to LEARN HOW.
HERE ARE TWO SIMPLE RULES OF THUMB.
1.) USE HUMOR
2.) LET HER CASUALLY FIGURE OUT YOUR LOGICAL QUALITIES ON HER OWN TIME OR IN THE SPIRIT OF HUMOR.
Let's say she says, what do you do?"
1.) You could answer normally, "I program computers and web-sites for banks that make over 68 billion dollars a year"
That sounds like you are trying to impress her.
BORING
If you casually answer with, "I program computers"
BORING
Let's try again.
She says, "what do you do?"
You say, BOOOORING! Let's talk about something more fun"st way you can get him to choo". Whats the meanest thing you've ever done to someone?"
Ooooh, now we're talking"ur intelligence Beau". You're directly challenging her, answering questions on YOUR TERMS in YOUR REALITY.
She may keep pestering you about what you can do.
Generally I'll say something like, "Well if i find out a little bit more about you, I mean the good stuff, then we can talk about boring stuff like work and you're favorite color"lubs and places he does and try to be interested i". So, tell me, what's the naughtiest thing you've EVER done."
Now you're leading the way, directing the conversation.
You could also say something like...
"Well I need to find out more about YOU first"gence make sure that you look unatta". I don't reveal the deep secrets of my life to just ANYONE you know.."t you are compatible as well as beautifu". so tell me are you generally and evil person or are you a sweet and kind good girl?"
Do you see the difference here? What has more edge? What is more interesting? What is she going to remember more?
Logic would say reveal your achievements, impress woman, get woman.
Sexual attraction says.."g and intelligent conversation w". lead conversation, invite her into YOUR REALITY, challenge her, let her discover your treasures.
Let's say you are a doctor or a lawyer.
Many men with a really good job will want to talk about it and impress her.
However what if you played a little hide seek with the question and then later she finds out you're a doctor?
That's like 2+2=6000
Now she's having fun, I mean this whole time she was talking to a Doctor?
What if you have a shitty job or are in school?
You can talk about why you have a shitty job or what you are studying.
Generally that's pretty boring though.
So don't focus on it"ve the rest, He will be attract". Lead the conversation elsewhere"ith your sparkling wit! Ignore him and look una". Mention it but quickly get back to some interesting banter.
THE MAN MUST LEAD
Impressing her does not mean answering all her questions on her terms.
Impressing her means inviting her into YOUR world and showing her around while letting her discover all the goodies.
So challenger her, tease her, play games with her, HAVE FUN.
Make her jump though hoops a little bit.....it's a good time.
I guarantee very few if any men have ever done this to her.
Don't TRY and impress her and you WILL impress her.
Best of luck out there!
Bryan Baldwin
Source: umad-dating-advices.blogspot.com
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